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TIME MAGAZINE (12/18/06) ON "EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE"
THE "DONALD" AND "EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE"
TO QUOTE: TIME MAGAZINE'S ARTICLE ON PAGE 53, IN THEIR 12/18/06 ISSUE.

"Developing good people skills. EQ, or emotional intelligence, is as important as IQ for success in today's workplace."
There is no doubt that "the" Donald has been successful in his business life and is not lacking in IQ...however, what is more important is how his EQ could use a little help.

EQ=Emotional Intelligence. In my opinion, a person's EQ is far more important. To have the capacity to create positive outcomes in relationships with others, as well as the capacity to sense the feelings and needs of others, can result in better communication skills. When you watch the "Apprentice" TV show, you will notice that Donald prides himself on listening to people's views, problems and concerns.

Yesterday I walked into one of West L. A.’s well-known bagel stores to purchase a dozen whole wheat and raisin bagels.

The 4 workers behind the counter were preoccupied; and so I, along with 3 other people, just stood there waiting to be acknowledged.

Since the lack of service lasted several minutes, I decided to say “hello” to the 4 workers, so they would look up.

The response from one of the young men was an “ANGRY” and “RAGING” …”We’re busy!”…and then silence in the store. After a few minutes, one of the workers came to the front of the counter and said he was sorry I had to wait. I placed my order, got my bagels and proceeded to leave the store, when it struck me that all of this was not the way I wanted to be treated.

So, I waited until the “ANGRY” young man was visible to my eye, and I walked over to him and asked if I could speak to him. I don’t think I can p ... Read More »

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It's Holiday time and perhaps you are finding yourself behaving in ways that seem out of control. You may have noticed that your behavior is having a negative impact on your relationships and important parts of your every day life.

Did you know that if a person is bored, sad or feeling anxious, stress can stimulate neurotransmitter activity which provides a thrilling euphoria. Yes, the stress of the holidays, for some people, can act as a "high". The stress of the Holidays for some people, can make them feel alive and give people a sense of purpose. But, what is the pay-off?....Ultimately, too much stress is destructive.

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