Anger 411 Blog

What we think or tell ourselves about a problem situation can make us angry....it is NOT the event itself. Read More »

Listening can be difficult. It requires us to tune into more than the actual words. Read More »

Why are companies dismissing Executives and Supervisors who are disruptive in the workplace? Read More »

Can Generation Y college students acquire the ability to know and control themselves while understanding and relating effectively to others? I am concerned! Read More »

I am receiving referrals from Psychiatrists, Psychologists and other professionals in the field of Addictions. Read More »

I AM NOT "EMILY POST"....EXECUTIVE COACHING IS NOT A CLASS IN BUSINESS-ETIQUETTE. RATHER IT IS INDIVIDUAL, PRIVATE AND CONFIDENTIAL TUTORING BEGINNING WITH AN ASSESSMENT DESIGNED TO DETERMINE THE CLIENT'S LEVEL OF FUNCTIONING IN RECOGNIZING AND MANAGING STRESS, COMMUNICATION, EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EQ), ANGER, AS WELL AS MOTIVATION TO CHANGE. Read More »

RESEARCHERS WARN THAT A RISING EGO RUSH COULD CAUSE PERSONAL AND SOCIAL PROBLEMS FOR THE MILLENNIAL GENERATION....CALLED GEN Y Read More »

Residents of Beijing will no longer tolerate "attitude" problems from the workers in their marketplaces and other areas of service to the public. Read More »

TIME MAGAZINE (12/18/06) ON "EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE"
THE "DONALD" AND "EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE"
TO QUOTE: TIME MAGAZINE'S ARTICLE ON PAGE 53, IN THEIR 12/18/06 ISSUE.

"Developing good people skills. EQ, or emotional intelligence, is as important as IQ for success in today's workplace."
There is no doubt that "the" Donald has been successful in his business life and is not lacking in IQ...however, what is more important is how his EQ could use a little help.

EQ=Emotional Intelligence. In my opinion, a person's EQ is far more important. To have the capacity to create positive outcomes in relationships with others, as well as the capacity to sense the feelings and needs of others, can result in better communication skills. When you watch the "Apprentice" TV show, you will notice that Donald prides himself on listening to people's views, problems and concerns.

Yesterday I walked into one of West L. A.’s well-known bagel stores to purchase a dozen whole wheat and raisin bagels.

The 4 workers behind the counter were preoccupied; and so I, along with 3 other people, just stood there waiting to be acknowledged.

Since the lack of service lasted several minutes, I decided to say “hello” to the 4 workers, so they would look up.

The response from one of the young men was an “ANGRY” and “RAGING” …”We’re busy!”…and then silence in the store. After a few minutes, one of the workers came to the front of the counter and said he was sorry I had to wait. I placed my order, got my bagels and proceeded to leave the store, when it struck me that all of this was not the way I wanted to be treated.

So, I waited until the “ANGRY” young man was visible to my eye, and I walked over to him and asked if I could speak to him. I don’t think I can p ... Read More »

DO PEOPLE TELL YOU THAT YOU ARGUE TOO MUCH?

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It's Holiday time and perhaps you are finding yourself behaving in ways that seem out of control. You may have noticed that your behavior is having a negative impact on your relationships and important parts of your every day life.

Did you know that if a person is bored, sad or feeling anxious, stress can stimulate neurotransmitter activity which provides a thrilling euphoria. Yes, the stress of the holidays, for some people, can act as a "high". The stress of the Holidays for some people, can make them feel alive and give people a sense of purpose. But, what is the pay-off?....Ultimately, too much stress is destructive.

Stress contributes to a decrease in one's immune system, stomach problems, headaches, and anger and rage. Stress can manifest ... Read More »

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IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU! ANGER CAN BE INFECTIOUS.... ARE YOU INFECTING OTHERS? Read More »

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