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Written by:Karen Golob
4/25/2007 3:13 PM

I recently read about a business philosophy that is starting to become a popular water cooler topic and it relates to disruptive and aggressive staff members.

From what I understand, if an employee exhibits abusive and disruptive behavior in their workplace, there might not be alternatives, such as anger management courses offered. The most productive way in which to intervene in working with these types of situations is to introduce an individualized program of tutoring which educates the employee in stress management, communication skills, anger management and emotional intelligence (EQ). This has been proven to be the most effective intervention of choice. These employees then become "Role Model"...in essence...teachers to the staff. 

How well a supervisor interacts with his colleagues lays the ground work for how competent and influential his or her co-workers manage the tasks at hand. This social interaction constitutes a defining characteristic of that employees emotional intelligence.

If a supervisor is not competent and does not have the tools to lead without an aggressive edge, do you serve him his “pink slip”…in other words, “Throw the Baby out with the Bathwater”. What a shame! What a loss to the entire team. Everyone has just lost the chance to enhance staff productivity and interpersonal relations, because no one has been given the chance to learn how to improve and enhance communication, as well as learn how to be a role model using effective management skills that encourage a more productive staff.

Karen Golob, CAMF, CDC, CH
Certified Anger Management Provider and Executive Coach
Beverly Hills, CA
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Re: Don't Throw The Baby Out With the Bathwater...Supervisors and Executive BEWARE....

I was the "Baby thrown out with the Bathwater". In 2005, the Insurance company that I worked for as a Supervisor, received a complaint from a Superior that I had used intimidation to acheive the results I needed in order to approve a budget that I had proposed. I was told my services were no longer needed. The truth is that I did use intimidation and my staff was afraid of my outbursts and inappropriate behavior. I only wish I had known about your program for Executive Coaching.
Looking back on this incident, I have many regrets.
I needed to start over again in the workplace, and because my problems followed me, I decided to start my own business and work for myself.
I still do not have the proper skills to work along side others and I am reading about "Emotional Intelligence" and know I do not have that characteristic. Thanks for your blog. I have already spoken to you once and will be calling for an appointment.

By Ralph C, Culver City, CA on  5/12/2007 6:55 PM

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